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Why a lot of Marriages are Breaking Apart.

A lot of marriages are breaking apart these days, many of them get divorced due to some minor issues that were not reconciled for long. Nowadays, people will get married and in a few days, weeks or even a few months the marriage will be no more. What is divorce then? Divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage by a court or other competent bodies. It is also the termination of a marriage or marital union, the cancelling or reorganizing the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country or state. The big question then is why are all these happening why they can’t live together there is always one problem or another one break up after another and many other things. Some of the things that lead to this break-up include:

1. Lies; A lie is one of the biggest issues that separate married couples. This could happen in so many ways. One could lie (about virginity, his background, social status, knowing how to cook etc) before his marriage and later on the truth is reviled it will lead to so many problems that might lead to separation.

2 Extra-marital affairs; having a relationship outside your matrimonial home could lead to the end of one’s marriage. A lady might be having affairs with her ex-boyfriend just because maybe she does not love her husband or that he isn’t satisfying her (on the bed and other things) needs. A man could also do the same and when the other finds out, they tend to go their separate ways.

3.Lack of respect: Not given him the respect he deserves at home could also lead to the end of those marriages. Most of the men like to be respected they never want to be disrespected most especially by their wives cause they will be asking themselves who is marrying who? and if you refuse to correct these, so many things can happen. Not only him, even his family. He wants you to respect both him and his family as best as you can if you fail to do so then you will be asked to find your square root.

4. Appreciation. appreciate whatever he brings for you, whatever he gives you, whatever he does for you so that he will have the zeal to do more for you, if not, he either gets another wife or get tied of you and sends you back home.

5. Lack of neatness both in the house and your body, when he is tired of this he will send you back home

6. The attitude of ‘I’m always right’ by both the husband and wife brings about chaos and pandemonium in marital life, no one of you is infallible.

There are many other things that could lead to divorce but these are the main ones I see close to me. One should be careful with these things so he won't get thrown out of his matrimonial home please just respect him do whatever he likes, the power of a good wife is in her weakness”, as stupid as it might sound, try using it and watch your husband becomes your lover again.